and the Haim sisters friendship is one for the books! From surprise collaborations to road trips, this girl crew have forged a bond that fans cannot get enough of! From their first meeting to the release of their iconic tracks ‘Gasoline’ and ‘No Body No Crime’, their bond has only gotten stronger. But how did this powerful partnership really come to life?
Unexpected twists, shared moments, and creative sparks fill the story of their friendship. Here is a peek into their friendship timeline—get ready for some exclusive behind-the-scenes moments you will not want to miss!
How a simple playful comment sparked a bestie bond!
At the Woodie Awards in March 2013, Alana Haim made a playful comment that would unknowingly lay the foundation for a powerful friendship between her and Taylor Swift. As the Haim sisters were asked about Swift’s recent breakup with Harry Styles, Alana playfully commented saying that Swift should take a break from dating and instead join them and have some fun, saying, “Girl Power”
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Taylor swift and the Haim sisters a thread 🧵 pic.twitter.com/kd1KY8qrat
— aya saw Taylor| fan acc. (@imalltoowell) July 22, 2022
At the time, neither of them knew that this fun remark would serve as the beginning of a bond that would go on for years! What started as a fun, casual comment soon evolved into one of the most iconic friendships in pop culture.
Haim making their way into Swift’s Instagram circle
By January 2014, things were taking a pretty serious turn in the friendship between Taylor Swift and Haim. The Queen singer followed the band on Instagram, a simple act that marked the start of their digital bond. That would go on to become a starting point for online exchanges, eventually leading to in-person hangouts and collaborations. Their growing online interactions were a subtle yet clear indication of the connection they shared.
ladies and gentlemen, taylor swift and haim being the cutest friends ever pic.twitter.com/yN7ntqtyYi
— mis(sam)ericana⸆⸉ (@augustinesivy) May 11, 2021
The track that solidified their girl squad!
Dating back to October 2014, after Taylor Swift released her iconic album ‘1989’, Haim took to Twitter and tweeted that their favorite song from her new work was ‘This Love’. Haim’s support for Swift’s work was not just limited to words. They became one of her biggest fans, continuously showing up for her, both personally and professionally, throughout the years.
HAIM and Taylor Swift together backstage at the O2 Arena in London. pic.twitter.com/7uSnIY54Fh
— Pop Crave (@PopCrave) July 22, 2022
Swift and Haim slaying the 2014 AMAs after-party
In November 2014, Haim joined Taylor Swift, Lorde, Selena Gomez, and Karlie Kloss for a fun hangout after the American Music Awards marking a key moment in their blossoming friendship. The group, being so close, was all smiley faces as they spent the evening together. It was the perfect snapshot of the growing girl squad and was just the start of the many such fun evenings to come with Haim becoming a key part of Swift’s inner circle.
Taylor with Selena, Karlie, Lorde, and Haim after the #AMAs last night! pic.twitter.com/vPlCs2YfwE
— Taylor Swift Updates (@TSwiftLA) November 24, 2014
Backstage moments and birthday celebrations
In December 2014, Este Haim and Taylor Swift had quite a memorable backstage moment at Z100’s Jingle Ball, where the two shared laughs and bonding time. The Haim sisters—Este, Alana, and Danielle were spotted among the VIP guests and others at Swift’s star-studded 25th birthday party the very next day. Fun and laughter filled the evening as the girls celebrated with friends like Selena Gomez and Lorde, marking a significant point in their budding friendship.
Taylor with Shawn Mendes, Charli XCX, Haim, the Agency, and her jazz players at her party! #HappyBirthdayTaylorSwift pic.twitter.com/JI9sjoCHwd
— Taylor Swift Updates (@TSwiftLA) December 13, 2014
Girls’ trips and after-party scenes
January 2015 was quite a year for this group starting with Taylor Swift and the Haim sisters taking a trip to Catalina that will never be forgotten, with Swift’s dad joining in on the fun too! This trip was not just about relaxing, it was a moment of pure bonding for the group, who had already become quite inseparable by then.
The fun continued as the crew went to the after-party for Netflix’s Golden Globes and posed for pictures to show the closeness they shared. With Lorde, Jaime King, and Gracie Gold also in attendance, this was a snapshot of a tight circle of powerful women supporting one another in style.
The group’s continued adventures and exciting tour announcements
Taylor Swift and the Haim sisters relationship
did not stop there as they shared a fun, sunny getaway to Hawaii in January, 2015 defying the then rumors spread about Swift’s appearance. The girls enjoyed each other’s company, offering glimpses of their strong bond. Just weeks later, in February 2015, they were announced to be opening on select dates during Swift’s 1989 World Tour.
7 years ago today, taylor swift and the haim sister hiking in hawaii.
january 22, 2015 pic.twitter.com/UzxMU1Lp7I
— Taylor Swift Updates (@TSUpdating) January 23, 2022
This marked a new chapter in their friendship, as the girls not only bonded over their love of music but also shared unforgettable moments on stage together, delighting fans with their shared energy and chemistry.
More music, fashion, and late-night laughs
July, 2015 saw Haim making an electric and memorable appearance with Taylor Swift onstage during the 1989 World Tour in St. Louis, delivering a lively performance of ‘Hot in Herre’. Earlier, in May 2015, the trio was also spotted attended the prestigious Met Gala together, turning heads with their styles! Later that night, the group as caught on Swift’s Instagram post had switched into comfy onesies and enjoyed a pizza-filled after-party.
Throw🔙| 7 years ago today, @TaylorSwift13 having pizza with Haim after the Met Gala pic.twitter.com/38iGGHEzDp
— The Swift Society (@TheSwiftSociety) May 2, 2023
Taylor Swift and Haim’s big year with music collaborations and more birthday parties
It was in December 2020 that Taylor Swift made an announcement on her 10th studio album, ‘Evermore’, featuring a collaboration with Haim on the track ‘No Body, No Crime’. The Haim sisters teasing this involvement on Twitter created even more excitement among fans, who could not wait! A year later, in December 2021, Swift shared moments from the celebration of her and Alana Haim’s birthday on social media, fondly expressing gratitude for the birthday wishes and the joy of having Alana by her side.
Seattle that was genuinely one of my favorite weekends ever. Thank you for everything. All the cheering, screaming, jumping, dancing, singing at the top of your lungs. Got to play “No Body No Crime” (aka No body no Haim) live for the first time with my sisters @HAIMtheband!!!!… pic.twitter.com/vDkAM4O93y
— Taylor Swift (@taylorswift13) July 24, 2023
Haim joining Swift on her show-stopping Eras Tour performance
In July 2023, Haim performed on stage with Taylor Swift during her economy boosting Eras Tour
, singing ‘No Body No Crime’ together that had the crowds go crazy with their electrifying chemistry! The trio were together when Este, Alana, and Danielle attended Swift’s birthday party in December 2023, where they were VIP guests to celebrate in NYC. Their bond continued into September 2024, when Danielle and Este were spotted with Swift cheering on her sweetheart Travis Kelce at a Chiefs game from the sidelines.
📷| HAIM opening their first Eras Tour show pic.twitter.com/ZaFKuKzXtV
— The Swift Society (@TheSwiftSociety) July 23, 2023
From their first prediction of a future filled with “girl power”
to hitting the stage together for unforgettable performances. Taylor Swift and the Haim sister’s relationship has blossomed into one of the most iconic bonds in the music world. Whether it is joining forces on stage or sharing sweet moments backstage, these two powerhouses have truly created magic together and the world cannot wait to see what comes next for this dynamic duo!
Who are the Haim girls in your own friendship story? Share your most memorable bestie moments in the comments below!
